It's been a very sad week as my husband Ron's twin brother Raymond passed away unexpectedly on Sunday. He had suffered a massive heart attack - cause unknown for now. He also leaves behind his sister Cheryl. One never expects death as we're busy living life, so when it does happen we are taken aback and return to the real life. Life is birth, living and dying. Raymond did alot of living. He raised his son, Jason, and they were best buddies. Ray had just moved to Florida the very first week in December to be closer to his son. So I guess this is where 'quality v. quantity' comes in. What better way to leave this world than to be living your dream.
Being a twin, however, makes the loss even greater I think. Ron was strong for his nephew, but when it was all said and done, it was his turn to mourn the loss of his brother and friend. They called each other 'Uncle Ray' and 'Uncle Ronnie'. They were very humorous together and it was always great to hear their laughter. Ray had a way with words, quick witted, and could make you laugh about even the most trivial things - everyday happenings. He made friends easily and had many in Barstow, Las Vegas, and now Florida. We will miss you Ray. I'll miss your phone calls. Thank you for being my brother-in-law...
Well said Mary!
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